Of Love As Explained By Kids

Scrolling through the interwebs I ran into an interesting article on how:

A group of professional people posed this question to a group of 4 to 8 year-olds: "What does love mean?"

I tried to find this research or the group of professionals or where even on this blue and green planet this survey might have been carried out. My final conclusion is that this another of those made-up internet stories. The earliest reference I could find being an article in the Dailygood News that inspires from December 2010.

While there seems to be no shred of evidence that real kids actually said these things, they are still beautiful, simple and somewhat profound observations that sum up love as it would appear from the innocence of childhood.

What is love?

Kids holding up letters to spell LOVE

“When my grandmother got arthritis, she couldn’t bend over and paint her toenails anymore. So my grandfather does it for her all the time, even when his hands got arthritis too. That’s love.”

Rebecca – age 8

“When someone loves you, the way they say your name is different. You just know that your name is safe in their mouth.”

Billy – age 4

“Love is what makes you smile when you’re tired.”

Terri – age 4

“Love is when my mommy makes coffee for my daddy and she takes a sip before giving it to him, to make sure the taste is OK.”

Danny – age 7

“Love is when you kiss all the time. Then when you get tired of kissing, you still want to be together and you talk more. My Mommy and Daddy are like that. They look gross when they kiss.”

Emily – age 8

“Love is what’s in the room with you at Christmas if you stop opening presents and listen.”

Bobby – age 7 (Wow!)

“If you want to learn to love better, you should start with a friend who you hate.”

Nikka – age 6 (we need a few million more Nikka’s on this planet)

“Love is when you tell a guy you like his shirt, then he wears it everyday.”

Noelle – age 7

“Love is like a little old woman and a little old man who are still friends even after they know each other so well.”

Tommy – age 6

“During my piano recital, I was on a stage and I was scared. I looked at all the people watching me and saw my daddy waving and smiling.

He was the only one doing that. I wasn’t scared anymore.”

Cindy – age 8

“Love is when Mommy gives Daddy the best piece of chicken.”

Elaine – age 5

“Love is when Mommy sees Daddy smelly and sweaty and still says he is handsomer than Robert Redford.”

Chris – age 7

“Love is when your puppy licks your face even after you left him alone all day.”

Mary Ann – age 4

“I know my older sister loves me because she gives me all her old clothes and has to go out and buy new ones.” (Now THIS is love!)

Lauren – age 4

“When you love somebody, your eyelashes go up and down and little stars come out of you.” (what an image!)

Karen – age 7

“Love is when Mommy sees Daddy on the toilet and she doesn’t think it’s gross.”

Mark – age 6

“You really shouldn’t say ‘I love you’ unless you mean it. But if you mean it, you should say it a lot. People forget.”

Jessica – age 8

And the final one…

Author and lecturer Leo Buscaglia once talked about a contest he was asked to judge. The purpose of the contest was to find the most caring child.

The winner was a four-year-old child whose next-door neighbor was an elderly gentleman who had recently lost his wife. Upon seeing the man cry, the little boy went into the old gentleman’s yard, climbed onto his lap, and just sat there.

When his Mother asked what he had said to the neighbor, the little boy said,

“Nothing, I just helped him cry.”

Kids holding hands clipart

What are some surprisingly insightful and profound things you have heard kids say, or even those things that made you wish that the Earth would open up and swallow you up whole… kids do say the darndest things.




  1. This one does it for me ..โ€œLove is when my mommy makes coffee for my daddy and she takes a sip before giving it to him, to make sure the taste is OK.โ€


  2. Seeing the world through a child’s eye is the best thing ever! โค๏ธ This would include hearing what a child thinks of things like this, Love and happiness or whatever you ask them! ๐Ÿฅฐ


  3. I appreciate you trying to track down the origin of this ‘study.’ Too many people these days love to share things that might not necessarily be true. Every now and again I see a video of a kid doing something astonishing. The parents seem shocked. Uh, you were just randomly recording your child at that very moment. Right? You did not coach them at all!

    “When someone loves you, the way they say your name is different. You just know that your name is safe in their mouth.” A 4-year-old noticed that. Uhum.

    But, overall, there were some good thoughts in there.

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    1. the world is such a pandemic of “alternative facts” you cant ever really believe what you see or hear on the internet… I did not want to just pass along “The Study” as fact.
      As for the videos you mention I have always wondered like are they recoding 24/7 just waiting for something amazing to happen…. Cameras everywhere always recording…


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