Of Love and Life in The Digital Age

You are familiar with the Three Mystic Apes also known as the Three Wise Monkeys:

See No Evil Hear No Evil Speak No evil
See No Evil, Hear No Evil and Speak No Evil

Mizaru, with eyes covered, sees no evil; Kikazaru, with covered ears, hears no evil; and Iwazaru, covering mouth, speaks no evil….

Well there is fourth whose wisdom and mysticism is somewhat debatable:

monkey with a phone  He sees nobody, he hears nobody and he speaks to nobody……. and yet on the internet the world is his oyster……

I always take what I read on the internet with a pinch of salt because much as it is a fun creative space, reducing physical distance into nothing more than a click on a screen, it seems to warp reality as we perceive it……

The more our phones capture reality, each new model with better camera, higher number of pixels and a bigger  screen with high definition screen; the less we actually experience it. It seems we have become a generation that seeks validity and relevance by the number of likes and retweets we get online, outsourcing even our conscience to online personas.

Sometimes it seems like people go out of their way to post pictures or share video clips from their lives to prove how they have made it in life or how awesome their dream holiday is even how perfect their relationship is. Almost as if they need the world’s approval to convince themselves that they have indeed arrived. Well maybe you have made it, but as for the rest of the easily swayed world who try to compete every second of their lives to a single moment, captured in a well-timed photo, disappointment awaits you…

Valentine’s has come and gone; with its commercialised; over hyped up trimmings, and of course throw in smart phones and the internet and suddenly people out to show how their better half is best; better than anyone else’s. Some seem to date simply so they can show off. I am sure a relationship is not a competition and Relationship Olympics are not an actual Olympic event but hey people are out there winning the Boyfriend Olympics and the Girlfriend Olympics on the internet.

Relationship Olympics

How do you stay in your lane if you want to Keep Up With The Internet Citizens who star in their own Reality Shows right on our internet timelines.

I read an interesting quote along the lines of :

“If you are going to do good deeds/charity work leave your camera behind”

I wonder if he knew, Alexander Graham Bell, back when he invented the telephone how much control his invention would have over our lives

The next time you are outside and happen to see the perfect sunset don’t take out your phone and take a picture just look at it until the light fades away…

sunset

~B

 

PS why wait only for Valentine’s Day to show how much someone means to you anyway? Live every day like its Valentine’s day.

The fourth monkey is called Post No Evil

Post No evil

 

 

photo Credit: Freaking News

 

Responses to “Of Love and Life in The Digital Age”

  1. floatinggold avatar

    Post no evil. What a fantastic idea. Agree with everything in this post. Well said.

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    1. Beaton avatar

      Post no evil indeed!!!
      Thanks
      ~B

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  2. Josh Gross | The Jaguar avatar

    This is the second post I’ve read this morning about how technology has taken over our lives. It seems that at least two people are catching on to what’s going down..

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  3. Miti Pius avatar

    Hey! I like what you said about the internet. Been there. I once dated a girl for a long time just because she was photogenic, and I filled my Instagram with the ‘perfect couple’ photos of us. How absurd! Yet in reality, she was a heavy headache, the one that thumps from one side of the head. Thank God I put all that behind me. Sometimes people only force a smile when they’re about to take a selfie for the Internet and not rarely after. I honestly relate to this. Thank you for posting.😊

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    1. Beaton avatar

      Hi Pius thank you for your honesty and sharing.
      Pretty smiles hide the deepest secrets.
      Am glad you found something you can relate to and hopefully something beneficial
      ~B

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